We all know half the reason to have a bachelorette party is to rack up a solid collection of lingerie. Invite the bachelorette guests to bring 一些性感的 for the bride-to-be by wrapping a simple card in lace from a fabric shop. Tie it with a bow, tuck it in an envelope, and you're good to go.
Going on a scavenger hunt to commemorate everything those two lovebirds have in common? Channel your most creative self (the Crayons and colored construction paper in your closet since elementary school might come in handy now) to design a map of all the spots you'll be visiting during the bachelorette shenanigans. Stow it in a pocket folder stuffed with any relevant goodies (ie: a disposable camera to document the night for a totally nineties throwback vibe) and drop it in the mail.
These days you're just as likely to be spending the weekend in Miami with your BFFs as you are having dinner and drinks in your hometown to celebrate your girlfriend getting hitched. Design an airplane ticket-style card with the bachelorette 411, and a perforated stub for the R.S.V.P.
Nothing says party like gold-dusted truffles like these beauties from Veruca Chocolates. If you're all in the same city, you might just want to hand off these sweet treats in person. Order small boxes and leave them on your ladyfriends' doorsteps along with a note about the plans for the night.
Even if you don't love the olive-y drink, there's something about a martini that has "sophisticated party" written all over it. Spend a little extra and order a set of custom-etched martini glasses printed with the name of the bride and groom. Or DIY it, and adorn the glasses yourself with stick-on rhinestones with the receiving friends' initials. Package it up securely with a card tucked in the glass listing where and when the celebratory drinking begins.
Half the fun of these girlfests is gifting each other with sexy skivvies. Wouldn't it be even better if you each got a pair to commemorate the occasion? Order a set of undies and get them screenprinted with the party info on the booty (you'll need boy shorts or at least bikini style to get it all on there).